Hi! My name is Melissa,
I'm a Mind Trainer (think PT but instead of training the body, I work with you to train your mind to help you achieve a happy, peaceful and fulfilling life), a published Author and Inspirational Speaker.
teach wild and free-spirited women how to unleash their powerful potential, reconnect with & value their true identity as limitless, peaceful, happy and loving beings so they can live fearlessly, free and fulfilled.
I believe, if you love, nurture and believe in yourself, then you really can achieve anything.
At age 23, I was 36 weeks pregnant with my second child, I found myself in a lawyers office.
What led me there was the fact I finally felt fear. During my second pregnancy, the father of my children became addicted to methamphetamine, and very quickly our relationship turned from hot and cold, to a living hell.
At my lowest point, shortly before giving birth, I was depressed, unable to get out of bed, listening to the words, "you can't even cope with one kid, how will you cope with two?"
I wished I could end my life.
I developed my low self worth during my cold childhood. As a teen, I felt like I didn't belong anywhere, so I searched for someone to fill my inner darkness. I found an addiction to the feeling of falling in love, and I discovered the pain of this pleasure, ego driven desire. Watching someone I loved so dearly self destruct under pressure drained me. I felt devastated for the loss of my dream of a warm loving home for my children. When I eventually left, with a small baby and a toddler, I had completely lost my identity, I felt like I had failed at life.
I am fortunate to look back at those times with gratitude, because they have shaped me into the strong, inspirational and happy woman I have become.
Removing myself from that nightmare was the catalyst for something new, my transformation and the discovery of happiness which has led me along nine years studying spiritual and personal development texts.
This work has led me to develop my framework for helping others achieve happiness, peace and fulfilment in their lives.
I've achieved many of my lifelong goals, some of which I never would have believed could become reality in the early days of becoming a solo mother.
I've lived in places I once only dared to dream of. I moved overseas with my children to live in some of the most beautiful areas of Sydney and surrounds, I completed my Bachelor in Business Information, I completed my Diploma in Applied Writing, I've travelled through Europe and I married my best friend and wonderful husband in the beautiful Cook Islands. We have since welcomed a third child into our family and are working toward living in Spain!
One of my greatest dreams was to become an author, which became reality in 2017 when I published my first book (Domestic Violence on Ice - How I transformed my shattered dream into an inspirational story).
I'm now writing my second book, Start with I, which shares my process to achieve a happy, peaceful and fulfilling life by nurturing the spirit first to transform the inner world and, therefore, the outer world. Perceptions of failure become opportunities, fears become love, belief and persistence will result in achievement and the realisation life's possibilities are endless.
With this work, I've been fortunate to share my story on stages around NSW, and I am always looking for more opportunities to inspire audiences. If you have an event coming up I'd love to hear from you!
Melissa reads her first book, Domestic Violence on Ice, Live on Facebook. You can watch her videos by visiting http://facebook.com/melissahwiringi/videos
From June, Melissa will provide live calls with her network. If you'd like to connect with Melissa, ask her questions or talk to her about her books, you are welcome to join in for FREE.
I'm running my Mind Trainer programs, for wild and free spirited women who want to unleash their potential! I enjoy helping these women unleash their powerful potential, connect with & value their true identities so they can live fearlessly, free and fulfilled.
I'm thrilled to use my incredible story to help people live their full potential and if you feel called to train with me, I'd love to hear from you!
I'm now working on a new set of my lifelong goals. I plan to make my second book become a bestseller and I'm excited to speak at many more events around the world.
I am excited about the future! Beyond 2019, I cannot say what will happen!! I am open to any opportunity, and I'm letting life lead me for the time being! This life is exciting, and who knows where I might find myself. I've got a long list, so I'll be working hard to achieve more of my greatest dreams.